Emergency** I'm disabled for the rest of my life, so husband wants divorvce!?

My husband said he want's a divorce because he has grown apart from me, He just turned "40" and is going through "Mid Life Crisis, and he has been somehow "Blinded, w/ some type of magic, black magic,voodoo, he does not know what she's done! She pretended to be our friend for 16 1/2 years and when I {Allowed her to be w/ my husband 1-1 in bedrm,It was 1st 3-some to make him happy w/ a fanasty. I trusted her she told me {lying so believeablly} by saying she would stop & back away if feelings got to strong & she would NEVER let it be the way it is now. They cont'd to be together after he told me he wanted a divorce.They were together the morning after I had to have an ER surgery had to have both pain machine's removed.They knew how I felt,all she would say is " that's how u feel,did u EVER,THINK about how we feel?" Does anyone know where or how to perform spells to STOP-DIVORCE & make him more romantic,have her leave us Alone,make her feel like I did for the last 6yrs, & group spells??